Tuesday, 13 October 2026

I Miss The Days-Poetry by Beverley N N

 

I miss the days

when friendship was

an invitation to laugh

at everything

and nothing.

At shadows that danced like brooms

At spinach that got stuck between the teeth.

I miss the days when friendship

was a time to fly kites

in between bites

of hotdogs, maize and simsim balls.

A time to ride bicycles

And count the passing clouds

Creating our own musicals

On a stage made of grass.

I miss the days when friendship was

walking to church in long white socks

Whistling at flowers, throwing rocks.

Now, conversations are a patronizing

Drumming to the ears

Dreams have turned into sermons;

Invitations have turned into a trick

To join a mastermind class.

Keep your honesty aside

And enjoy the ride

Of self-help.

Business for breakfast

Lectures for lunch

Tidbits of tips for tea

And all of this, they say, is to make you grow.

And yet each time they call, you shrink.

It's another condescending call

About your commitment, or lack of it

So many people are committed these days.

Are we all lunatics?

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Three steps to becoming great again!

And yet all I want

Are the three steps to

My friend's heart again.

It's not the years that have changed us.

It's lazy to blame it on our age

It's preposterous to claim that life happened.

Our friendship wasn't a thing that just happened.

It was who we were.


..




By Beverley Nsengiyunva, April 2021

Published in 'Dress Me In Disobedience', available online at beverleynambozondotcom

....


Kampala, Uganda.

 


Sunday, 4 October 2026

Zambia; My Heart

We hugged as strangers in Zambia, and left as lifelong friends.

My trip to Zambia was planned as a simple solo celebration, which, after one connection, transformed into a multiple festivity of my 50th birthday, writing, visits to iconic sites, networking, meeting of distinguished ministers and life-long bonds.

When we drove into Mrs. Mumbi's house from the airport, the white-washed walls, splashed with roses, hibiscus, and bouganvillea were a taste of my colourful week. 


With former female ministers and Mrs. Mumbi in pink

This woman's legacy began from her birth and has been riddled by turmoil and triumph. From 60, after retiring and years after she became a widow, God called her to start a school. Far from a smooth journey, this school, targeting orphans in Ng'ombe Community in Zambia, has raised many leaders within Zambia who are also impacting the globe. Speaking and celebrating at the school, with poetry, Babishai books and dancing, was such a highlight.

Meeting former female ministers who had served multiple terms in various ministries, chatting and dining with them like chums, meeting the Zambia Women Writers' members, finding a home amongst people across borders and visiting the grand home of President Kenneth Kaunda.


Hope and Faith Community School, Ng'ombe Community-Zambia

A city with minimal hills, hardly any potholes and negligible traffic interference for walks, due to hardly any motorbike riders or red dust, Lusaka was a place of repose and revitalisation. 














Thursday, 10 September 2026

Walking With Gorillas, With Geniuses

 Imagine being trampled on by elephants, as a work hazard.

What an extraordinary book, based on the life of an iconic, resilient and non apologetic individual, Dr. Gladys Kalema.

Two years ago, when the team at Babishai researched on iconic Ugandan women to write about in their poetry anthology, 'Feeling,' Dr. Gladys Kalema, was amongst the first.

She is a conservationist, Uganda's first wildlife veterenarian, founder of Conservation Through Public Health, that uses a one health approach regarding health of both humans and animals for longevity, and recipient of the 2026 CNN Heroes' Award, amongst others.

Her autobiography, 'Walking With Gorillas,' is a walk with determination, faith and resolve.





With a mentor and aspiration like Nobel Laureate Wangari Maathai for her work in conservation, it i no wonder that throughout the biography, we witness the many ways in which Gladys overcame, to become who she is, and the journey continues.

Starting from a wildlife club at Kibuli Secondary School, shere she studied for her A level beause her O level school was rather too rigid, she says in her own words, the spark for wildlife continued to brighten.

Being fascinated by animals at a young age and receiving an opportunity to work at Uganda Wildlife Authority as the first wildlife vet, after which she had to make split second decisions with tranquilizing animals as they are translocated, travelling with giraffes and elephants in the same carrier and gaining more knowledge with experts in the wider East Africa.

She lost a couple of friends who were trampled on by elephants, an unusual and devastating work hazard and yet there are numerous rewards from her work.

Gladys was also in the U.S at the time of the September 11, 2001 attacks on the World Trade Center, and thankfully survived.

Observing how human health directly impacts animal health, especially those of gorillas, chimpanzees which bear strong DNA as humans, this led her to enormous discoveries.

The main advocacy and lesson that we learn is that advocacy with the communities is a far better approach to achieving animal conservation goals. The community leaders, health practitioners and dwellers are integral to any work that involves their home.

Bwindi is no exception and most of the success registered through Gladys' work and those of the other rangers and conservation experts, was because they worked alongside the community leaders, building trust that took months, years and whose impact is felt even decades later.

That is a poignant thread throughout the book, which is available in major bookshops around the world and whose audible version is also available.

Enjoy reading!

Bless!

Bev



Thursday, 20 August 2026

Launch of Dr. Gladys Kalema's audible book-'Walking With Gorillas'

 There are some people whose work transcends excellence. After decades of tireless dedication to their journey, fulfilling massive obligations to shape communities, environments and lead people all over the globe towards change, it seems effortless.

And yet, it isn't.

Last night, (20 August), I had the distinct pleasure of attending the launch of the audible version of the book, 'Walking With Gorillas,' written by the indefatigable Dr. Gladys Kalema.


She embodies brilliance, elegance and steadfastness, as a champion of conservation, animal protection, safe communities and so much more.




Gladys is that person who keeps going. Tragically losing her father in a deeply horrific way when she was barely a toddler, she was raised by Rhoda Kalema, another figure of fortitude and leadership in Uganda, and in secondary school, Gladys started the wildlife club. Attending Veterinary school abroad, she returned to make a difference in the landscape of primarily animal conservation in Uganda, especially with mountain gorillas. 

Her work has landed her in coveted places all over the world and more recently, earning a well-deserved spot as the 2026 CNN Hero of the year for her lifelong work in protecting the endangered mountain gorillas. Purposeful life will lead you to places without you looking for it. Gladys' focus is highly admirable. She deserves the accolades.

I am glad that she invited me to her book launch and I'm digging into the audible as I type.


Bless!

Bev




50 is the age of peace and abundance

 Talking about 50, the age of peace and abundance.

I have been orearing for this since 47. Mentally setting the pace for this magnificent age and walking in strides towards it.

Taking myself for a personal retreat, where the trees touch the skies, I made my way into a golden space with contentment and gratitude.










Saturday, 25 July 2026

Uganda National Oil Company-They are that club

 Dressed in black and and white, which are colours I often reserve for when I am called to speak at corporate events, I left home at 3pm for the installation ceremony of theUganda National Oil Company Toastmasters Club executive committee 2026-2027.


















Thursdays are good days for me. I set them aside for swimming, hair, or meetings. The day was ideal. The organising committee left no prisoners with the lavish and classy decorations, well set up buffet and exraordinary cake. 


Guest after guest arrived and I was left in awe as the session began. Given the background  of this club, which survived its fledgling years and has thriven to an over 30 member club with impressive and notable leadership, this was an event not  to be missed.


As keynote speaker, I focused on turning a milestone age and the journey and changes in the spiritual, emotional and physical space and how intentionality becomes a normal part of my process.


The chief guest was aspirational and moving, calculating the strides towards effective communication and the camaraderie and recognitions were a powerful conclusion to the ceremony.

I do not recall installations as memorable and it was quite the honour to be invited to deliver the keynote address.

Congratultions to the new and poutgoing exco and appreciation to the organising team for arranging a warm vibrant and intellectually stimulating evening.

Photo credit: UNOC and Penda


Tuesday, 14 July 2026

Mad props to the World Cup commentators

 "The world is opening up to the Spanish cohort."

"Look at those wild eyes."

"Mbaaaapay!"

"Pedro Porooowwww!"



Internet photo


The real entertainment lay in the commentary. Huge props to them.

Our two eldest daughters stayed up late to support Spain and they went to bed elated. I knew about the score from the Spanish flags on interne highlights. Congratulations, L'Espana. I decided to watch highlights and the team spirit from Spain was magnificent. Truly incredible and they held tremendous control of the game.


Huge congratulations to France as well, for holding their own. They are a team that remains unflappable.





Wednesday, 8 July 2026

Celebrating 19 years of marriage, at Le Chateau

Yes, it is worth all the hype. 19 years of mrriage and dinner at Le Chateau, the fine dining within Le Petit Villge in Nsambya, Kampala city Uganda. This ws on 7. July. 2026. A Tuesday.

With the right tenderness, softened with meticulous care, sliced to pefect precision and garnished in delicate quantities, the dinner and the marriage, it is worth it.

Treat yourselves. 


Do not wait until the other has checked all the boxes-they have stopped texting when talking to you, they have stopped rolling their eyes at the in-laws, they have stopped burning food and started laying the bed properly when it is their turn. 

Do not wait for all those pet peeves to vanish. Treat yourselves and you will return to those bothersome habits later on.

Fine dining is this: Soft piano music cascading across the leafy green artistry and minimalistic balconies.  There is sufficient lighting that dims in and out of light conversations and laughter. It is sophisticated.

Treat yourselves. Find something to do that carries the years of the marriage lightly across your hearts and lavishes you with enough to keep going.

19th anniversary. 57 to go.


Wednesday, 24 June 2026

When I spoke at the Book Launch, This Happened

Before I even met him, I received several calls and emails requesting that I moderate the panel discussion at his book launch and also deliver a book overview. The month of June opened up new avenues.


I stood there before hundreds of individuals and delivered my book overview sermon, leading to a panel discussion that I moderated. The panel comprised social workers, doctors, and clinical psychologists, all in the space of caring for vunerable children and families, partners with the author's work.



Pastor Brian Kagyezi, known as Prophet to many at his fellowship, Pneuma Word, penned down his autobiography in what can be described as the fall from the world into the arms of God.

Titled 'In the eyes of an orphan,' this heart pumping and deeply stirring book is a game-changer. Imgine growing up with a rich dad who is able to give you everything yoiu desire. Growing up in a household filled with goodies, plenty of everything and no notion of lack whatsoever. 

This changes when the father dies from HIV/AIDS, shortly after followed by the mother. We see the author sojourning with an orphan spirit of despondency, loss, bitterness and loss of identity. It is only until he fully surrenders to God that we realise the only way to fulfillment is in Christ. The riches of the world are temporary and that our faith should be in God and not in the temporary finesse of the world.

This transformative book opens the reader to grasping how restoration is within reach, once God is at the heart of our journey.

Get yourselves copies. Each book will contribute towards changing children's lives.


Bless!

Bev

Saturday, 13 June 2026

One Day Someone Will Catch Me Dancing in Front of The Mirror

 When I visit a public place like a hotel, restaurantgo th, cafe bistro, I will use their bathroom and if I am alone, will find myself dancing in front of the mirrors. After admiring their meticulous arrangement, sophisticated tiles, the opulent marble and shiny unconventional taps, I then check to see if I am alone.

If the coast is clear, I will dance. I will dance and imagine flat abs. I dance and imagine a thunderous clap from a global audience at my sold out tour. I dance and imagine the sequins shimmering under the lights. I dance in front of my imaginary back up team. 

We are a decently dressed dance troupe. We sing songs that are uplifting, that honour families, that spread good cheer and we counsel many of the audience members that come to us for autographs. We travel across nations and heal the broken hearted whose lives have been shrouded in despair.

And when we take a few days off for rest, we reflect, recharge and reconvene.

The bathroom door opens and I stop dancing.



Thursday, 11 June 2026

Mexico '86

 It's 1986 and my father is shouting for Argentina, prompting me to run to he sitting room. I am 9 years old and it is summer in England. Our comfortable home on Purley Avenue is bright and daddy is watching the World Cup.

Because my father supported Argentina, I have been supporting Argentina or Brazil, ever since. I also crammed all the counries in South America and their capital cities. It is because of these sentimental attachments that I supported Mexico during the World Cup opening match of 2026. 40 years later and my heart is still drawn towards this country.


 Internet photo

It was in 2006 that I visited Mexico City and after writing several poems to capture my feelings, I revisit them at times. I revisit the memories that are still vivid. I remember the conversations, the streets, the shops, the sleet and standing out as a black person by the pyramids. I remember all of it.

Mexico beat South Africa and this was a personal victory for me, because 40 years later, I needed this win. 

This is my time for a win.

Bless!
Bev

Wednesday, 10 June 2026

This

 

Al  Qaeda

 

I am Al Qaeda

metal scanners are my foes; my friends

the scanner rubs me up and down                                           

it makes a sound

I take off my metallic belt willingly.

 

Your scanner rubs me up and down and rubs me up and down again

this time it I my metallic bra

please help me und the clasp

your scanner makes a sound

it is the metal in my garters

your scanner begins to bulge.

 

You take me to a room

your scanner beeps and beeps and beeps.

 

 

Previously published in Kwani? 4, in 2006



Tuesday, 9 June 2026

Mothers vs Daughters' Netball Match

Wholesome fun is part of our life's journey. Heroes' Day 9 June 2026, my eldest daughter's school organised a Mothers' day brunch together with a netball match. I had spent the previous week at home and it had begun to stifle me. I needed to get out. Sunday at church was Family month launch with a lunch and family discussions and Tuesday, brunch and netball.



I did not expect to have that much fun. It exceeded my expectations. I last played in primary school, or secondary. I definitely last scored in primary. And here I was, volunteering to serve as the shooter. Surprising myself, and I am sure others as well. My eldest is a netball player, captain of her team and goal shooter. Her team relies on her so much and I am super proud of her. My second born us a sprinter and basketball player. I am proud of her and all our children. We worked our bodies hard during the match. The mothers, helped by the teachers, did extremely well and won the match by one point. The girls of course were highly impressive, well coordinated and most likely wouldhave won if we weren't assisted by the younger staff members. Our center, a parent, played so well, and was our MVP without a doubt. It was such a thrill. Exercising, team work, having fun, cheering and ending the day on an extremely high note. Bless! Bev

Sunday, 31 May 2026

Our eldest

 Our eldest, let's gooooo.



That age when they are learning to sit. Their legs aren't yet straight. They are fully breastfed and healthy and sweet. Bursting cheeks with clothes that don't quite fit around their tummies.

Babies are adorable and must be protected. Infacts are precious and must be cared for with love.

I have followed the story of the Turpin family who lived years of horror under their wicked, unfit and irrepressible parents. The children, aged 2 to twenties were chained, starved, deprived of hygiene and medical care and void of  affection.

The house was called The House of Horrors and thanks to the bravery of one of the daughters who was 17 at the time, and managed to escape, the children, most adults, are now freed and bonding. The parents pled guilty.

I have witnessed abuse in many forms in various situations and yet this parental abuse sits amongst the worst of its kind.

It cannot even be categorised under 'How not to parent.' It is right out of the devil's handbook.

May all children be cared for with love.


Friday, 29 May 2026

All my Life I’ve Tried to Fit In

 

All my Life I’ve Tried to Fit In

 

All My Life I’ve

tried to Fit In

I cut off my feet for you

to match your height

and even when I couldn’t walk

I trusted you’d carry me

but you left me to walk on my own

 

all my life I’ve

tried to fit in

I removed my vagina for you

but instead of taking care of it

you took it to your church fellowship

for un-sexing and de-feminizing

 

all my life I’ve

tried to fit in

I removed my eyes for you

because my vision was too big

but instead of giving me sight

you kept me blindfolded

and blind, foul and dead.

 

all my life I’ve

tied to fit in

I removed my hands for you

to hinder their beauty

hoping that ordinary people like you

would finally love me.

you used my hands as gloves

when you felt cold and inhumane,

which was often.

 

all my life

I’ve tried to fit in.

I removed my brain for you

because you said I think too much

and yet there was no room for me in your smallness

and you squeezed me out.

 

I became born again today

in this life

I don’t need to fit in

I was born to stand out

born again

to shine again

to feel again

to love and be loved again

 

Poem by Beverley Nambozo Nsengiyunva, 2021


 

Tuesday, 26 May 2026

The Best Non-Crier on Purley Avenue

 

I know what I’m going to do this half- term break. I’m going to prove to everyone on Purley Avenue that I’m still the best non-crier on the street. I first have to deal with Dolores. She made fun of me when I showed the rest of the kids on the street my Tina Turner show. Everyone else said I was great. I hate Dolores. She has so many freckles. Her face looks like a slice of ham with many tomato seeds. I don’t have breasts yet but I have a great BMX bike that I call Tiger.

“You’re just a stupid Cabbage Patch kid,” I yell at her from across the street. It’s the first Saturday of the half-term break, 27th October.


Southall Park London, 2013


“And our gang will always be better than yours.”

With that, I run to the green bush where the rest of my gang is waiting. We call ourselves The Stars. Every holiday, me, my brothers, The Ugandans on 46 Purley Avenue, the Nigerians on 48 Purley Avenue, Paree and a bunch of other kids hang out. It’s still warm for October and I’m glad since my birthday is next Saturday. Ihuoma’s gone off to Manchester so I’ll just hang out with the Purley kids.

“What’s the plan for today? Where’s Happy Sam? And where are Punch and Judy?”

Happy Sam is my neighbor from Nigeria, five years old. He lives on 48 Purley Avenue next to the Ugandans on 46 Purley Avenue. He was born in 1981 and is younger than all of us. But we all like Happy Sam because he is just so happy. Punch and Judy, the nick name for the Kenyan twins, are my best friends on Purley Avenue. Ihuoma is still my best friend in the world. Actually, Gemma is also my best friend in the world. Punch and Judy are the fastest runners on the street but I’m better than them at marbles.

Justin tells us that Happy Sam went to pick up his brothers and sisters from the airport with his parents. His family comes to London every year from Nigeria. Justin is Julie and Jackson’s brother. They are Ugandan like me and they are called The Musokes. When our white friends read their name, they call them Moo-Soaks.

“Well, we have to go and get them. Come on: if our gang is going to be strong, then all the members have to be here. We are going to rumble, and we will win.”

“Listen guys, I think we have to go over to their house and tell them that if they don’t come today, we can lose the rumble,” I declare.

“Elgona’s right,” Julie says.

I know she only does so because she thinks that Masaba will like her better. Julie even allows Masaba to touch her breasts. I don’t have breasts yet.

“Ok then, let’s go,” says Masaba.

“Good.”

When we get to Punch and Judy’s house, we see a big moving van outside.

“What’s going on?” Justin asks.

“Are they leaving?” says Masaba.

Their Mum, Mrs. Why-Nigh-Nah, which is actually spelt Wainaina, comes rushing out with about a dozen pillows in front of her and bumps into us.

“Where are you guys going? Are you leaving?” I blurt out, leaving Julie to help her with the pillows that have fallen on the ground.

“Oh, you’re all here,” says Mrs. Why-Nigh-Nah.

I hate it when adults play dumb.

...


Part of my story published in 2013, Postcolonial Text.

Title: The Best Non-Crier on Purley Avenue

Monday, 25 May 2026

Dear Jeanne

 Dear Jeanne,

You left this earth on 22 May 2026, and yet you still unite us. There are some members of Rhema that  I had not seen in 20 years whom I met at your vigil. I also joined the WhatsApp group for Rhema ladies and your contact is still there.

When I met you in 2005, you were working at Rhema and managing the day to day administrative tasks. I remember when, during my research for gender work, you lent me 500/- to buy fruit salad. And then you would carry digestive biscuits and Nido powdered milk for me to take tea.

That small Rhema office was cold from the air conditioner and yet warm from the conversations. You were consistent and charming. Your dimples bobbed in and out effortlessly. You carried yourself with grace.




The poignant moments I recall were when you visited me a few times, when I was in dire stress. You were my SoS. You saw the signal and came rushing. Listening to my cries for help, because of the increasing stress I faced from unfulfilled dreams, shattered friendships and poverty woes, you patiently responded. Without judgement you listened, and that is what I needed. I needed someone who would patiently listen.


Thanks for the friendship. Thanks for naming our first daughter. Thanks for introducing Ariel to us. Thanks fo renabling us to recinnect with Alex.

Thanks, Jeanne.






Thursday, 14 May 2026

Lamu; Africa’s Little Giant Wonder

 

Lamu far exceeds them all. A visit to this part of Kenya’s east coast is incalculable. Historically unfamiliar to me before I disembark from the Fly540 carrier from Nairobi’s Wilson Airport, I step onto the stony sandy soils of what I call, Africa’s Little Giant Wonder. 



The transition from the potholed clouds to the disturbingly hushed welcome at the mini landing site jolts us into an unnecessary panic. What happened to the endless oceans and beaches that the brochures talked about? Waiting in unbudgeted for anticipation, we hear a rusty voice yelling, Jambo!

 

“Jambo Bwana,” someone from our pack responds.

 

“The boat is ready to take you. My boys are coming to carry your luggage.”

 

Trudging along, we line up our luggage on the gaping rickety dock. The boat tilts as we all clamber on board. At the tip of the dock, the Indian Ocean is a tiny rivulet searching for an outlet to its magnificence. The boat steadies on the waters while gaining the trust of the wide ocean. The boat shakes in excitement of carrying twenty or more writers to a festival on Lamu Island. The secrets of Lamu’s realities are concealed from the naïveté of our pens. Each of us looks ahead at the island not so far off, scratching our minds for an opening paragraph to describe the ugly beauty of the unknown.

 

Interestingly, Lamu does not spread out its vanity with white sands, blue oceans and setting suns-no. It deceptively creeps up on you and hypnotises you with its intoxicating simplicity and selflessness. There are not placards to welcome us for our week long writing festival. There are no minivans guided by manipulating tour guide companies to drive us around the block to our lodges. The boat stops near the water’s edge and springing out of nowhere, hundreds of beach boys jump on and start heaving our luggage onto their bronze (not proud of the word bronze) backs. Lamu’s community must have like 30% beach boys. This is yet to be statistically proven. I look on as the sturdy young men whose orange dreadlocks dance about over their sweaty backs carry our luggage calling out the different names of lodges and hotels.

 

“Petley’s!”

 

“Peponi!”

 

“Lamu Palace!”

 

“Manyalenge!” (Definitely wrong spelling).

 

“Jannat!”

 

All twenty of us have been scattered in the various slots of accommodation. I join the boy yelling Manyalenge with two other friends. He hoists the luggage on his back which is our cue to follow him. We follow him through the narrow corridors between the closely packed peeled off buildings. He waves at the children riding on donkeys. We follow him. He manages to avoid the generous cakes of donkey droppings that are everywhere. We still follow. Someone pours a bucket of dirty water which lands on my now tired feet.

“Pole sana.”

 

Finally we get to a large wooden door which can easily fit into the tale of Ali Baba and the forty thieves. It has an ominous looking brass knocker. Opposite us is a video stall. The boys manning it smile at the three of us ladies. I wonder if they will be our inspiration to write. The ominous looking door opens. There is space. There is sparse and yet exquisite furniture. High ceilings. Fans. Lots of space. Gold and silver lined cushions. Craft. The housekeeper ushers us in. The coolness from the fans and fresh banana juice are our first real treat on the island. We realize then that Lamu does not adjust its taste to suit its guests; we have to fit into its gentle stride. Our beds are protected by mosquito nets but not from the heat as we realize later that night.

 

I reckon that I will need at least five baths a day as I take my first one soon after arrival. The heat settles on my inside like a big sleeping baby. Unlike my usual travels where I am restless to sightsee, the slow pace of Lamu diminishes my touristic anxiety and I sleep the afternoon off.

 

It is difficult to distinguish the evening from day in Lamu. Promptness and urgency are but luxuries. At 2am, people stroll to the nearest bar and pack themselves on a boat as they set off to another island. The giggly girls who throughout the day are hidden under veils allow the men to tease their hair. At night, spectacularly and inconceivably, luminous bugs cruise alongside our boats. They illuminate the dark coloured ocean and marvellously appear as if out of nowhere. In the day time, the invisible bugs elude us and at night, tease our imagination and come to life in this amazing way like tiny fish the size of mustard seeds. Simply incredible.

 

We forget our invitation to the writers’ festival and allow ourselves to be led by Lamu and its beach boys. Mornings begin with a 9am shower and for breakfast, we have what is arguably East Africa’s best brewed coffee. This is followed by pancakes and syrup, fruit, juice and then of course another nap. Our walks take us through different routes on the old town. The buildings are so close by and the narrow streets look the same to us. However, our curiosity takes us to other places. And we discover Aly King. Now, being December and a few days to Christmas, Aly King is someone everyone on the island needs to know. Aly King is a coastal who is a master at tailoring. He sits at his machine and within record time, has tailored outfits that Elle magazine would be jealous of. We stumble upon Aly King by accident. Drapes of airy print, tie and dye, baby suits and others hang outside his shop. Tantalised by the colours, we move in. Aly is like a wizard at the wheel. Customer after customer lines up. Aly sews clothes for families over Christmas; he weaves together outfits for tourists to boast of as they return home. Our job is just to watch and wear. Lamu is not Lamu without Aly King.

 

The donkeys attempt to pick up the pace at the otherwise unhurried Lamu Old Town. They trot past us dropping their leftovers to guide us to the next stop. The medieval 14th Century settlement of Lamu has a canon that stands motionless hiding stories of conquests and war. The dhows remind me of my primary history. The Lamu Museum ,built in 1891, has wooden doors carved locally in the Omani and Indian styles with old Lamu kitchen utensils.

 

Each day the beach boys call out to us. With only one thought and that is to have fun, we allow them to take us to Shelah. Shelah is one of the more posh islands, about an hour’s walk away from Lamu Old Town. This crystal blue part of the ocean is inviting. Here, there are limited or no inhibitions about Islam tradition and so we feel free to walk in our costumes and while the time away, swimming while gazing at the equally leisurely Lamu sky.

 

The henna ladies come eagerly and shyly towards us. Speaking little English, they show us pages of patterns which they are willing to draw on our hands and bodies at a minimal fee. We marvel as they transform our palms into flowers and ship anchors until our fingers are soon singing the songs of henna.

 

Lamu has the knack of letting you let go. Chatting with the beach boys’ stories of instant happiness, chewing mira to let go of pain and taking part in the Swahili weddings. I learn that many have met their aspirations of getting married to an Australian, Norwegian and Dutch and so spend half of the year abroad and the other half on the island chewing mira and making sure everything is just as they left it on the island. Nothing to worry about. Time stands still in Lamu. Apart from the 4am alert of the Imam and the impatient donkeys, everything remains at the same dawdling stride.

 

I shudder to imagine if rumours of investment are true. There is no need for that in Lamu; it is an investment of history and pleasure in itself.

 

Note:

This was a 2006 visit that still captures my imagination, and the article was written over ten years ago.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Wednesday, 6 May 2026

A Gorgeous Time With The Microphone In Hand

 I enjoy events so much when I have the microphone in my hand. I love to be part of the scenery, to be part of the picturesque affair.

I relish the planning, especially with respectful, committed and mindful people. That is why hosting this book launch was a highly cherished experience.



After reading this book, 'One Drop At A Time,' I wsa inspired by the complexities nd rewards of international service, especially that of the United Nations. 




Florence Ruzhwengyibwa Kiwana Lugolobi, mother to triplets, who endured 100 interviews before securing a dream job, built resilience and built a family empire together with her husband Sira Kiwana, narrates her story through this ghost written letter to the world.

It was beautiful to spend an evening with others who could relate with the narrative and indeed what a  rich experience. The book is available on Amazon.

Make your orders.




Bless.
Bev


Saturday, 25 April 2026

My Speech in his Honour

When honour is restored, goodness accelerates.

On 23 April 2026, I delivered a resounding speech at the Prof. Senteza Kajubi Fulbright Memorial Lecture held at Makerere University in Kampala.


I recalled in 2011 when I visited his home to learn more about the Fulbright scholarship. It was in 1952 that he set off for Chicago to study for a Master;s in Geography. Imagine a young East African man in his twenties in Chicago during the Jim Crow laws.

There were experiences that he could never forget. At the same time, it was the esteem of the scholarship that built his resilience and led to his success as a scholar. 

Later on, Prof. Kajubi served as Vice Chancellor of Makerere University, twice, introduced the 1989 White paper education policy and influenced higher education in many ways.









Representing the family as the eldest grandchild, these are the stories I shared in my speech. Appreciation to the US Embassy of Uganda, Makerere University, friends and colleagues for their continued support.